Ladies Man

Last night I went to a concert put on by Marietta’s Parks and Recreation Department and had a really good time. While I was mingling on the dance floor, a woman came up to me and asked if I could dance in the chair… next thing I know I was dancing with about five or six ladies the rest of the night. Ah, just one of the advantages of my job. I love meeting new people, and I have to say this job has really helped my self esteem.

Before the concert started I was talking to a woman who happens to be a huge Gone With the Wind fan, and I mentioned that we recently had a three-day weekend dedicated to GWTW. She was surprised she didn’t know about it, so I gave her my card and mentioned a daylong tribute to Ann Rutherford coming up July 3 on Turner Classic Movies. It’s really amazing how much people ask me about the city and what’s happening around town. I can honestly say this job is the best thing that’s happened to me, and I wouldn’t work anywhere else.

Oh yeah, back to the concert. As the night went on, I think word leaked out that I had my camera with me because a couple people asked me if I wanted them to take a picture of me, and a few of the ladies actually came over wanting their picture with me. I love my life, and it’s like I’m not even in the chair. People really see me for what’s inside and treat me like anybody else, and that’s what I really want in life. To be accepted for me and not looked at as somebody different just because I have spina bifida and am in a wheelchair.


4 thoughts on “Ladies Man

    • thank you so much Karen. I always try to show pwople it’s what’s inside that counts, and apparently it’s working. I spent about 45 minutes with a woman a couple months ago and we had a great time, dancing and talking. One of the most amazing expereinces of my life.

  1. Wow man. Pretty cool the way you handle all that. I have two disabilities and I am nowhere near thinking like that. One of is my back, it is not Spina Bifida, but I do have rods and screws back there from a defect. I also have Tourrette’s Syndrome. That thing is B****h. Anyways, I enjoyed your blog so I’m going to follow it. I just started one so I am attempting to get it how I really want it. Good luck to you

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